BB's guide to tuning the perfect guy, in the Spirit of ol' St Valentine.

When it comes to dating, we all know how it "works"- for the lack of a better word. Besides being fun, uplifting and at times nerve racking, it can also be unpredictable, awkward and sometimes punishing … While us chicks at Bellaboo live by the mantra; "Love like you have never been hurt", we thought we would do our part to save our much loved boo's at least some of the eventual heartache by teaching you how to find the right guy, tune him and eventually call him yours.

What you need to know about finding the right guy
There are three types of guys in the world. No matter their age, gorgeous looks, cultural heritage or ability to act like a complete gentlemen, society has shown us that you can classify (without stereotyping) them in three ways. With their human right to have flaws, it is up to you to be able to work out there deal through a range of signs and signals.

A) The relaxed charmer
You know the type! The "it'll be right", sensible sweet talker that has you grinning from ear to ear. He is quick to compliment you, the first to suggest romantic remedies like a candle lit picnic dinner by the beach and likes to take things slow. He is respectable and very simple at heart. He doesn't get mixed up in material worth and always says he'd prefer complete happiness over money. His only setback on the love-o-meter, he is not completely focused or willing to get tied down.

B) The bad boy persona
The one we hate to love. This guy is completely daring, always sexy and leaves you feeling completely curious. There is something about the way he speaks, he always uses metaphors and has you testing your moral waters. If he is interested, he will make you feel like you need something more which is a big plus for those chicks who love an adventure. He will reinstate you as the most popular chick around and have you guessing what's next for your relationship. Our advice would be not to get too involved. Suss him out and don't give into everything he demands. While he seems like fun, he may be a lot of work and one you may not be able to trust.

C) The dominant
He seems totally interested. He loves the same things as you and shows that he can provide for you. He treats you like a princess and has you feeling safe and secure. The dominant guy is always jealous about other guys checking you out, even if he cant admit it. Whilst this is completely flattering, you need to know that there are some definite underlying issues surrounding his behavior. We beg you to be aware of this and still hold your own identity. He may be quick to influence you no matter how good or bad it is, and knows that he will have you re evaluating your priorities when it is totally UN necessary and inappropriate.

Now that you know the type of guys out on offer you need to work at how you can approach them. As they say, a first impression will determine your success with a person. While we think it is majorly important to be yourself in all situations, what you need to do is emphasize your own assets. If you have a great smile-make it loud, if you are great at communicating- spark up a general convo on something interesting- maybe with a bit of humor. Oh and don't forget to flutter those eyelashes. (Works every time) When it comes to guys we at BB say keep it honest and simple.

What you need to know about tuning a guy...
Alright girls we have devised a check list just for you in order to make your crush tuning session the ULTIMATE.

1. Don't be too over the top.
   That's right; keep your outlandish laugh to a cute decibel. Don't speak to loud or be too intoxicated when you are around him. You don't want him to get the wrong idea.
2. Talk about things that matter.
   If you are one of those material types, do yourself a favour and tone it down. Guys don't care about the latest trend in shoes or what your friends think about another girls outfit. A definite no no is gossiping!
3. Lock eyes with him.
   They say the eyes are the window to the soul. Your eyes are your most trusting feature on your face. You can tell a lot from a guys expression which is usually dominate through some noticeable eye action. He will be sure to fall head over heels if you can lock this one in.
4. Light Flirting.
   Whilst you need to keep your space, there is nothing wrong with a gentle pat on the arm when laughing at his jokes, as long as it looks natural. This will show him that you are completely engaged with what he is on about and that you are not afraid to show your emotions.
5. Talk with his mates.
   This is a major plus for any girl that can score a big thumbs up from his mates. While being true to yourself, it wouldn't hurt to throw some of these rules his mates way- in a friendly tone of course.

What you need to know about making him yours...
Ok you have him hooked with the line and we are going for the sinker. You have been on a couple of dates. They have gone so well and you can tell he is totally into you. From here it is about having the subtle (not needy and direct) convo on where this is going. Maybe ask him if he sees you guys hanging out more or if he wanted to come over (to meet the rents of course). Our best advice would be to take it nice and slow. Know what you are getting into. Always be positive and treat him with the utmost respect, that way you know what you are getting back.

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